The Entourage

Monday 25 June 2012

Work Permit



Having a mixed feelings today. Got a news this morning. From ene. His work permit for Hong Kong has been approved finally. Lepas letak phone dengan Hasnaa tadi, he called me straight away. Happy? Or sad? I don't know. Part of me is happy for him. Of course I am. Peluang kerja macam ni tak selalu datang. I really want him to go. Not just for the money, but also for experience gains. Tu lagi penting. Sebab he won't be working there for the rest of his life kan? Sooner or later he'll be coming home jugak. And he'll need those experiences to find a better job. And I bet he will.

But another part of me pulak, I really don't want him to go. Jauh kot. Yes, I get cheap flights whenever I feel like flying out to him. But still. It's so far away. How's our wedding preps gonna be? Susah laa nak update apa-apa kat dia nanti. Nak call mahal. Macam skang ni, I'll straight away call/sms him if whatever crossed my mind. Sebab nanti takut lupa. Wedding thingy ni memang banyak benda nak kena pikir. Kalau dah jauh nanti, cane? :( Now, I'm thinking to get a smartphone for myself. Seriously.

He's going to tender his resignation anytime from now. Tender would be two months. Pastu he's going to Singapore for training. Also for two months. And after that baru dia terus pergi Hong Kong. Dalam perkiraan aku, he'll be going to Singapore after raya laa kot. Alhamdulillah. Dapat laa dia puasa and raya kat sini. And he'll be going to Hong Kong around November. Hmm.. dah dekat sangat dengan our wedding date. Would they release him nanti? Kang tak pasal-pasal pengantin lelaki tak sampai-sampai, aku dok atas pelamin sorang-sorang. Isk.. nauzubillah, mintak simpang jauh-jauh.

Ni belum kawen, dah rasa jauh. Kalau dah kawen nanti macam mana pulak? Long-distance marriage is so not my cuppa tea. Tengok Abang dengan Effa jauh pun dah rasa tak berkenan di hati. What if I got pregnant? And have a baby? Okay, dah jauh sangat tu pikir, tapi memang still kena pikir kan?

Haih.. Sangat-sangat mixed feelings. I'm still contemplating of going with him to Hong Kong after married. But, I really love my job! Kalau pergi sana, dok kat sana, nak balik Mesia tengok mama and abah, dah takleh dapat flight tickets murah dah. And kalau aku pergi sana, boleh ke dapat keja? I don't want to be a stay at home mom. And kalau dapat kerja, baby siapa nak jaga? Of course laa takde nursery Islam kat sana kan. Apa pulak diorang bagi makan nanti. Nauzubillah.

Tapi kalau dok sini, jauh dengan ene pulak. Cane? Tak tau nak buat apa skang ni.


Serabut.

22 comments:

  1. berfikir dari sudut positif, jika baik utk ene...why not?
    sis tak tau u kerja apa, btw why not just join ene after married....u can do online business...HK byk benda u boleh utilise kat sana.....anyway best of luck...think wise!

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    1. memang ni good opportunity for him sis.. saya buat engineering untuk airasia. so benefits untuk employees memang dapat free tickets n stuff. so senang laa nak travel. tiap2 minggu pun bule jenguk dia kat sana. hehe

      a'a.. memang ada terpikir camtu. ada la tanya2 kawan2 yang penah dok sana. online business opportunity memang besar kat sana sis. one thing is because hk dah dekat dengan shenzhen. barang china murah2 untuk bawak masuk mesia. tapi kalau saya dok sana, kena la hire someone pulak kat sini untuk jadi agent bawak masuk barang tu ke mesia in bulk. kalo nak pos ke customer terus dari sana, mahal (ceh, dah siap pikir dah tuu aahaaha). sis nak jadik agent saya? ekkekeke. tapi tuh la, kalau resign, dah tak dapat tiket murah untuk balik selalu2. haih.. pening dibuatnya..

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    2. zila, ko offer kat sis, kalau kena ngan aturannya why not? sis tgh mencari2 juga pe sis nak business sebab tetiap bulan hubby ke indonesia...so nak utilise la travelling tuh,so boleh buat business kecil2an.....
      kalau on, jgn lupa pm sis ye

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    3. hehehe wah sudah jadik business partner kita eh? ekekke.. ok.. nanti kita tengok how it turns out.. news update: orang Hong Kong nak pakai dia cepat. So, in one month, dia kena pegi Singapore dah. Adeh.. makin awal pulak :(

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  2. masalah jugak....sabar lah byk... mst ada jalan penyelesaian ni....

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    1. haih.. tuh laa awak.. ni tengah bersabar sambil pikir apa yang patut start buat dulu. lagi 2 bulan je dia nak pegi. so kena prepare apa2 patut untuk kasi settle semua benda before dia pegi. nasib laa benda2 besar macam pelamin, catering n dewan dah locked. tinggal benda kecik2 je lagi ni..

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  3. babe!!!!!!..dh approve?...alamakkkk..so nnt recep camne?..hurmmm,i can feel u..i pun mmg xleh nk jauh2..realy hate long distance punye relationship..iwan xde baru sehari dh rindu mcm seminggu xde..byk beza tau jauh time couple n time dh kawen..sabar kayh yayang!!!..hope for the best!!.

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    1. Dah approve dah. huhu tuh laa. recep stil the same date. dah lock semua benda kan.. so memang takelh nak tukar apa2 dah. skang ni cuma mengharap, dia dapat cuti je laa. kalau tak dapat cuti pun, dia kena mintak excuse at least release dia for that particular wiken. then after wiken tu, dia start keja balik. dengan kata lain, honeymoon lambat lagi laa.. uwaaaa. dah laa wiken tu confirm semua orang busy nak amik cuti krismas sampai new year. haih laaa.. dugaan dan cobaan betul laaa

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  4. Yang, kita doakan semuanya berjalan lancar. Amin... dont worry too much ok. Bersabar. Moga dipermudahkan semuanya.

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    1. Thanks so much Bie.. kita pun harap Allah tunjukkan jalan yang paling baik untuk ini. Amin..

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  5. duhh.. mesti rindu giler.. apa-apapun moga selamat semuanya yer..

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    1. haih tu memang pasti laa.. mesti rindu.. thanks awak.. saya pun harap gitu jugak..

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  6. tapi mesti sedih jugak kan.. berpisah..Saboer jelah..

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    1. haih.. memang sedih laa nurul.. tapi takleh nak buat apa.. kalau dah memang kitorang kena jadi weekend couple.. terpaksa la kan.. :(

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  7. Yang penting sabar zila...Lagi jauh jarak perhubungan tue lagi syok...Kerinduan lan macam sikit...

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    1. thank you kak.. harap2nya memang camtu laa.. orang tua pun cakap, nanti lagi manis. cuma risau godaan2 yang mendatang je laa kalau jauh.. huhu.. mintak jauh semua tu..

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  8. Follow blog zila dari blog gegurl

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  9. Hee..sama je keadaan ngan i taun lepas, bln 12 nak kawen,bln 10 dpt offer ke norway..terpaksala delay kawen, n now here i am,kt norway amek unpaid leave..mmg cabaran nak uruskan hal kawen sorang2..pressure kdg2,tmbh lg kiterang time different 6 to 7 hours..die siang,kita malam..tp insyallah, segalanya dipermudahkan nanti..wish u all da best..

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    1. oh wah.. u lagi jauh.. haih tuh laa.. tiba2 pulak dia kena pergi awal. boss dia suruh. baru je hantar dia semalam. :( nasib baik ada technology. kurang sket la rasa jauh tu. time zone pun sama.. cuma kesian kat dia je puasa kat tempat orang.

      hal kawen alhamdulillah dah settle suma. tinggal nak final payment je. nasib baik laa dapat tau dia nak pergi ni 6 months before kawen, sempat laa kejar lagi apa yang patut kan..

      so u kat norway skang? seronoknya :) kenapa tak try cari keja kat sana?

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